Friday, June 27, 2008
Backyard bunny
Ever since my husband and son spread compost throughout our backyard, which includes Bunjie's litter, a strapping little brown bunny has moved in. Maybe he smells our late bunny in the garden so he has decided we are rabbit-friendly people. But the most interesting thing is, he appears just a couple of feet behind me every time I hang my clothes out to dry on the thick yellow chord that stretches across our yard. He has gotten so close that I have almost stepped on him. I can't believe how friendly he is, and how interested he is in watching me hang the clothes on their bright colored pegs. He hops behind me then disappears into our herb garden, where I know he sits under leaves of thyme.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
End of First Grade
Today was my son's last day of school for the summer. When I spotted him in the hallway, I saw him hugging his teacher's gift to him, a hardcover collection of Dr. Seus. On the inside page, was her special message to him, and her signature. He would open the book, glance at the message, then close it shut, and hold it against his chest.
He looked solemn in a way and so grown up for the end of first grade. He seemed coltish, taller than most kids his age, and a little unsteady on those legs which seem to be growing faster than the rest of his body.
He has made it to end of grade one and in this year he has faced the death of a beloved pet, seen his first crush move to a different school and watch his best friend move away to another province.
I am amazed by the ability he has shown so far, to deal with the challenges and experiences that have come his way. I am blessed to know him.
He looked solemn in a way and so grown up for the end of first grade. He seemed coltish, taller than most kids his age, and a little unsteady on those legs which seem to be growing faster than the rest of his body.
He has made it to end of grade one and in this year he has faced the death of a beloved pet, seen his first crush move to a different school and watch his best friend move away to another province.
I am amazed by the ability he has shown so far, to deal with the challenges and experiences that have come his way. I am blessed to know him.
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Maria
Tonight I am thinking back to the bedroom that we shared in our childhood house. The brown and orange papered room, and the giant maple tree that stood outside it. I found such peace and comfort sharing that space with you..so much that when I moved into the bigger room next door, I never quite adjusted. The window air conditioner and the computer both made so much noise they kept me up at night. The air conditioner made a loud mechanical grinding noise as it pushed the air out, while the computer hummed even with the monitor turned off. I eventually thought enough was enough and moved a cot into your room, uninvited. It was a sanity saving mechanism, for me at least. I used to love to go through your closet, you never seemed to mind. I loved looking at your clothes, and books and collection of purses and wallets. I believe I even read your diary from time to time. It was such a sweet experience to hang out in that dim lit space filled with so many luxuries and secrets.
When I was bummed out, I felt it relaxing to watch you sit in front of your vanity mirror that lit up, watching you apply your makeup. You had so many wonderful shades to choose from. It was quite a palette. Your fondness for makeup started back then.
You never made me feel like I was an inferior little sister. Even when I walked home with a note from the school nurse, requiring me to have my hair washed chemically. The lice didn't gross you out as you patiently washed my hair.
How old were we when we lived there? From children to 20 somethings, with five years in between? Sometimes, I still hear our echoes, our laughter. As well as the silences that deepened the air between us.
When I was bummed out, I felt it relaxing to watch you sit in front of your vanity mirror that lit up, watching you apply your makeup. You had so many wonderful shades to choose from. It was quite a palette. Your fondness for makeup started back then.
You never made me feel like I was an inferior little sister. Even when I walked home with a note from the school nurse, requiring me to have my hair washed chemically. The lice didn't gross you out as you patiently washed my hair.
How old were we when we lived there? From children to 20 somethings, with five years in between? Sometimes, I still hear our echoes, our laughter. As well as the silences that deepened the air between us.
Ross and Ivor
Yesterday, my son's best friend moved away. It was hard for my son, to know that he would no longer see his friend in his classroom. Or see his coat hanging off his special hook. Or see his bike in its usual spot outside the school yard.
The mornings would not be full of the same excitement of running into his friend on the path where they would walk, and run. He'd have to roll down that green hill on his own, or convince his sister too.
On the way back from school, there would be noone to hang out with in that leafy Boys Only club-house that would be filled with silence sometimes, whispers often, and laughter almost always.
My son went to bed last night, feeling lost and lonely. Left behind. I hope for his sake that his heart will feel less heavy soon.
The mornings would not be full of the same excitement of running into his friend on the path where they would walk, and run. He'd have to roll down that green hill on his own, or convince his sister too.
On the way back from school, there would be noone to hang out with in that leafy Boys Only club-house that would be filled with silence sometimes, whispers often, and laughter almost always.
My son went to bed last night, feeling lost and lonely. Left behind. I hope for his sake that his heart will feel less heavy soon.
Father's Day
Last night as I was drifting off to sleep I thought of you and of the many summer nights you lay in your asparagus-green room listening to the thunder. Your wide-open windows letting the rain, thunder and lightening in. You never looked more peaceful as you did, watching the wind blow under the weight of curtains, the lightening illuminating your room, the pelting of rain against your window.
I could see you, slowly fading in and out of sleep. My picture in a silver frame on your night table, and somewhere else, a card I had made for you.
I finally felt myself letting go, falling through the spray of rain, seeing your face and hugging you like I had done before, not just on your day.
I could see you, slowly fading in and out of sleep. My picture in a silver frame on your night table, and somewhere else, a card I had made for you.
I finally felt myself letting go, falling through the spray of rain, seeing your face and hugging you like I had done before, not just on your day.
Fair
Today was a wonderful day for a fair. The thunder showers held off and Ross was able to eat his hot dog and cup cake in the sun, visit the bouncy castle, jump on a mini-trampoline and ride a pony.
I'm hoping to keep the kids busy for most of the summer between camps and cottage hopefully. I have one month which I still need to fill up to keep the kids occupied and I had a chance today to visit the venues and talk to one of the organizers of a local Bible Camp. Although, I was raised Catholic I consider myself non-denominational. I feel open to all sorts of religions, and why not sign the kids up ...
I was really hoping to make a positive impression so that I could sign up both children, even if signing up the youngest one was iffy because she didn't meet the age requirements. And finally I saw her in the crowds, next to her father. They had just come from a birthday party. She greeted us with a sparkly smile and dark blue eye shadow. Lots of it. Apparently Cinderella had piled on the make up for all the 3 and4 year olds.
Above all, Ella looked really proud of herself and her blue heavy lids.
What else stands out about the day...I saw life and death pictured together in my mind's eye. A woman nursing her baby, sitting on a large rock next to a crypt. It was amazing.
What else was amazing, the showers held off until the fair started to wrap up. Then my husband helped fold and clear tables away which was a kind thing to do because he wasn't even a volunteer. Good on you Dave. Good Karma heading your way!
I'm hoping to keep the kids busy for most of the summer between camps and cottage hopefully. I have one month which I still need to fill up to keep the kids occupied and I had a chance today to visit the venues and talk to one of the organizers of a local Bible Camp. Although, I was raised Catholic I consider myself non-denominational. I feel open to all sorts of religions, and why not sign the kids up ...
I was really hoping to make a positive impression so that I could sign up both children, even if signing up the youngest one was iffy because she didn't meet the age requirements. And finally I saw her in the crowds, next to her father. They had just come from a birthday party. She greeted us with a sparkly smile and dark blue eye shadow. Lots of it. Apparently Cinderella had piled on the make up for all the 3 and4 year olds.
Above all, Ella looked really proud of herself and her blue heavy lids.
What else stands out about the day...I saw life and death pictured together in my mind's eye. A woman nursing her baby, sitting on a large rock next to a crypt. It was amazing.
What else was amazing, the showers held off until the fair started to wrap up. Then my husband helped fold and clear tables away which was a kind thing to do because he wasn't even a volunteer. Good on you Dave. Good Karma heading your way!
To My Father On His Birthday
The sun is sinking somewhere into a gray river of sky. Today is sadly dark and dismal on your birthday. I have not spoken to you in five years and don't know where to begin.
I remember how much you appreciated nature. The Cherry trees are in bloom in my front window, and the window facing the chair where you once sat in my dining room. Even the Dogwood, the one that is overgrown, in my backyard, looks spectacular as it leafs and flowers.
Our lilacs are beginning to flower as well, but their sweet fragrance won't linger in the air for a few more weeks. I remember how much you loved the fragrance of lilacs and how we would drive in the country and you would pull off to the side of the road and open the window to let them in.
We never had lilacs where we once lived, but we were always surrounded by nature. You used to sit in front of a thin curtain, in the living room, watching the gulls, robins and cardinals drifting from our backyard to the field that stretched out behind the fence which separated us from the endless school yard.
I have not heard your voice, touched your hand or kissed your cheek in five years. You were not here for the birth of my daughter or Kenny and Angelina.
I have missed your guidance, your warmth, and your presence.
Maybe I'll hear your voice again if I read the poetry that you wrote and left for me. Or maybe I will know you are still here if I listen closely when I look at the pottery that you spun and masterfully painted.
I wonder if I decode the hieroglyphics on the red clay, if there will be a message waiting for me. A message that will tell me how to find you again, how to write again and the legacy you want me to share with my children.
I remember how much you appreciated nature. The Cherry trees are in bloom in my front window, and the window facing the chair where you once sat in my dining room. Even the Dogwood, the one that is overgrown, in my backyard, looks spectacular as it leafs and flowers.
Our lilacs are beginning to flower as well, but their sweet fragrance won't linger in the air for a few more weeks. I remember how much you loved the fragrance of lilacs and how we would drive in the country and you would pull off to the side of the road and open the window to let them in.
We never had lilacs where we once lived, but we were always surrounded by nature. You used to sit in front of a thin curtain, in the living room, watching the gulls, robins and cardinals drifting from our backyard to the field that stretched out behind the fence which separated us from the endless school yard.
I have not heard your voice, touched your hand or kissed your cheek in five years. You were not here for the birth of my daughter or Kenny and Angelina.
I have missed your guidance, your warmth, and your presence.
Maybe I'll hear your voice again if I read the poetry that you wrote and left for me. Or maybe I will know you are still here if I listen closely when I look at the pottery that you spun and masterfully painted.
I wonder if I decode the hieroglyphics on the red clay, if there will be a message waiting for me. A message that will tell me how to find you again, how to write again and the legacy you want me to share with my children.
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